No matter what JOB I have or HOUSE I live in or CAR I drive or ROMANCE I embrace, I am MORE than ALL those things!
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
Last week I had a phone conversation with a loved one. I hadn't spoken to her for quite some time, so it was great catchin' up. Truth be told, before I called her, I knew precisely what I wanted to discuss. But I felt compelled to talk about everything else under the sun BEFORE I got to the subject matter on my mind. I don't think she was any the wiser. Anyway, eventually I got down to the nitty gritty. I asked her about her new friend. She told me that her new friend had just recently visited her, but had gone back to wherever she lives. Of course, I had to ask more questions. And, eventually, I got the answers I was lookin' for. She and her new friend have consummated their new friendship. Haaa! I love the way I just put that. After one husband, numerous, male lovers, two kids and 50+ yrs of living, my loved one has crossed over into the land of "carpet munching!" Haaa! Based upon our conversation, I didn't get the impression she deems herself a lesbian. Which could turn out to be a real bummer somewhere down the line 'cause the new friend is a full-fledged lesbian. And a stud lesbian at that! All I know is that for now they seem to enjoy their relationship just as it is. Good for them. My loved one lives life to the hilt, so I hope & pray that whatever she's doing with this new friend only brings joy to BOTH their lives! --- Folks can say what they wanna say about the aging process, but my loved one's recent revelation goes to show that...